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Hurricane Recovery Resources

The RFL Skill Center is open as a Hurricane Relief Center for all former foster care young adults and their children this week:

 

Monday, October 21 through Friday, October 25

10am - 4pm

Recovering from a hurricane can be overwhelming, especially for those who may be facing their first major natural disaster. This page provides essential resources and guidance to help you navigate the recovery process. From emergency assistance and temporary housing to mental health support and financial aid, we've compiled key information to help you rebuild after the storm.

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Drop by the Skill Center any day this week, from 10am to 4pm, to cool off, have a hot meal, charge your devices, and meet with our team to form a plan for recovery.

 

Remember, your resiliency is a powerful asset, and you're not alone in this journey – we are here to help.

Resources & Updates

Last updated: Friday, October 25, 2024 10:30am

How to apply for FEMA Disaster Assistance

 

Talk to your Program Specialist today for help applying! They will walk you through the process.

  1. Visit https://www.disasterassistance.gov/ 

  2. Click the red "Let's Get Started" button on the homepage.

  3. You'll need to have as much of the following info ready as you can:

    • Home address or mailing address, and email address; phone number; Social Security number (SSN); banking info; and home or renter's insurance info.

    • The FEMA portal is secure, so you don't have to worry about your information being compromised. 

  4. After you answer the qualifying questions, make an account so you can save your application and check back on its status once submitted.

  5. Fill out the application. Enter as much detail as you can. You can go back to your account later to enter anything you don’t have handy now.

  6. Check what you've entered, make changes if you need to, and submit your application to FEMA. Remember to save and keep your Application ID, put it in your notes app or take a screenshot. You’ll need it anytime you talk with FEMA.

  7. Check your email often to see if you have messages from FEMA. They will email you any time they send a message.

  8. If you are having issues online, call the direct FEMA hotline at 1-800-621-3362

Weathering the Storm: A Guide to Handling Decision Fatigue After a Hurricane

First off, take a deep breath. You've already overcome so much, and this is just another challenge you'll get through. Let's talk about something you might be experiencing right now: decision fatigue.

 

What's Decision Fatigue, Anyway?

Ever feel like your brain is mush after a long day of making choices? That's decision fatigue. It's what happens when you've had to make too many decisions, and your mind is just... done. After a hurricane, you're probably facing a ton of choices, big and small, and it can be overwhelming.

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Why You Might Be Feeling It More Than Others

As someone who's been through the foster care system, you might find decision fatigue hitting you harder right now. Here's why:

  1. You're doing this solo: Many people turn to family for help after a disaster. You might not have that option, which means more decisions fall on your shoulders.

  2. You've dealt with a lot of change already: Foster care often means adapting to new situations frequently. This resilience is a strength, but it also means you might already be tired of making big life decisions.

  3. You might be figuring out some adulting stuff for the first time: If you're still learning some life skills, making hurricane-related decisions on top of that can be extra tough.

  4. Money might be tight: Limited funds can make each decision feel even more stressful because the consequences seem bigger.

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The Hurricane Decision Overload

After a hurricane, you're probably facing choices like:

  • Where to stay if your home is damaged

  • How to handle work if your job is affected

  • What to do about your belongings

  • How to navigate insurance or disaster relief (if you have access to these)

 

It's a lot, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed.

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How to Tell If You're Dealing with Decision Fatigue

You might be experiencing decision fatigue if you:

  • Keep putting off important choices

  • Make hasty decisions just to get them over with

  • Avoid making any decisions at all

  • Feel paralyzed when faced with choices

  • Have trouble focusing or remembering details

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Strategies to Help You Cope

  1. Break it down: Big decisions? Chop them into smaller, more manageable steps.

  2. Create a routine: Try to do certain things at the same time each day. It gives your brain a break from constant decision-making.

  3. Prioritize: Focus on the most important and time-sensitive decisions first.

  4. Use decision-making tools: Try making pros and cons lists or you can even use a helper for smaller decisions.

  5. Take care of yourself: Get rest when you can, try to eat well, and move your body. It helps clear your mind.

  6. Connect with others: Reach out to friends, other former foster youth, or support groups. Sometimes talking it out helps.

  7. Ask for help: It's okay to seek assistance. If someone offers to help with a task, please take them up on it.

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You're Not Alone: Community Support

Remember, there are people and organizations out there to support you:

  • Turn to your Program Specialist for support, especially with big life decisions

  • Come to the RFL Skill Center to talk with other people who have been through similar experiences

  • Talk with a mental health professional: we have a counselor at RFL that is available for you

  • Utilize community recovery resources and government assistance

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You've Got This

You've navigated tough situations before, and you'll get through this too. Decision fatigue is real, and it's okay to struggle with it, especially after something as major as a hurricane. Take it one step at a time, be kind to yourself, and remember that every decision doesn't have to be perfect.

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Your experiences have made you resilient. Use that strength, but also know it's okay to lean on others when you need to. As you rebuild and recover, you're not just surviving – you're showing the world just how strong you are.

 

Stay safe, take care of yourself, and remember: you've weathered storms before. You've got what it takes to get through this one too.

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If you are struggling, please reach out to our in-house Mental Health Counselor, Sarah Markin, at smarkin@readyforlifepinellas.org, or call or text (727) 591-4885. 

Employment Resources

Your Guide to Job Hunting: From Search to Success

Whether this is your first job or you're a seasoned employee, entering the job market can feel overwhelming. But with the right approach and preparation, you can navigate this process successfully. This guide will walk you through the key steps: searching for jobs, creating a resume, applying, and preparing for interviews.

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1. Searching for Jobs

Finding the right job opportunities is the first step in your journey. Here's how to get started:

  • Use online job boards: Websites like Indeed, ZipRecruiter, and FlexJobs list many job openings. You can filter by location, job type, experience level, and education requirements.

  • Check company websites: If there are specific companies you're interested in, look at their career pages directly. You can usually find a link on the very bottom on a website's homepage.

  • Leverage your network: Talk to your Program Specialist, mentors, or friends you look up to. They can tell you how they got their job, and might know of opportunities or be able to introduce you to potential employers.

  • Visit local job fairs: These events allow you to meet employers face-to-face and learn about multiple opportunities at once.

  • Consider temp agencies: These can be a great way to gain experience and potentially find long-term employment. Express Employment Professionals is a great agency to get you started.

 

Remember, your next job doesn't have to be your dream job. Focus on finding opportunities that can provide valuable experience and help you build your skills.

 

2. Creating a Resume

Your resume is often an employer's first impression of you. Here's how to make it stand out:

  • Keep it concise: Aim for one page, especially if you're just starting out.

  • Use a clear, professional format: Choose a simple font and consistent formatting throughout.

  • Include your contact information: Don't forget to list your full name, phone number and email address, and your city/state. If you don't have any email address, Google makes it very easy to create a secure email account.

  • List your education: Include your high school or GED if applicable, and any additional training or certifications, including an unfinished degree or current enrollment.

  • Highlight your experiences: This can include part-time jobs, gig work, school projects, and more.

  • Focus on skills: Especially those relevant to the jobs you're applying for. Use the same words as the job description and highlight skills that match the role.

  • Proofread carefully: Check for any spelling or grammar errors and ask a friend to help you as well!

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If you lack traditional work experience, focus on transferable skills you've gained through other experiences, such as leadership roles in school, obstacles you've overcome, or extracurricular activities.

 

3. Applying for Jobs

Once you've found opportunities and prepared your resume, it's time to apply:

  • Follow application instructions carefully: Some employers may want you to apply through their website, while others might prefer email.

  • Customize your application: Tailor your resume to each job, highlighting the skills and experiences most relevant to that position.

  • Be honest: Never lie on your application. It's okay if you don't meet all the requirements – focus on the strengths you do have.

  • Apply to multiple jobs: Don't put all your hopes on one application. Apply to many jobs to increase your chances.

  • Keep track of your applications: Note where you've applied and when, so you can follow up appropriately.

 

4. Preparing for Interviews

Congratulations! If you've been called for an interview, the employer is interested in you. Here's how to prepare:

  • Research the company: Learn about their mission, values, and recent news.

  • Review the job description: Be prepared to discuss how your skills and experiences align with what they're looking for.

  • Practice common interview questions: Examples include "Tell me about yourself," "Why do you want this job?" and "What are your strengths and weaknesses?"

  • Prepare questions for the interviewer: This shows your interest in the role and company. This could be something as simple as asking the interviewer, "What is your favorite part of working here?"

  • Plan your outfit: Choose clean, professional attire. We have plenty of brand new clothing at Beth's Corner, and also uniform attire for when you get the job! Reach out to your Program Specialist.

  • Gather necessary documents: Bring extra copies of your resume, a notepad, and a pen.

  • Plan your journey: Know how you'll get to the interview location and aim to arrive 10-15 minutes early. Reach out to your Programs Specialist if you need help getting to an interview. 

 

During the interview:

  • Make eye contact and offer a firm handshake.

  • Speak clearly and confidently.

  • Be honest about your experiences and skills.

  • Show enthusiasm for the opportunity.

  • Thank the interviewer for their time.

 

After the interview, send a thank-you email within 24 hours, reiterating your interest in the position.

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Remember, job hunting is a process that takes time and persistence. Stay positive, learn from each experience, and don't hesitate to seek help your Program Specialist or mentors at Ready for Life. Your unique experiences as a former foster youth have given you resilience and problem-solving skills that can be valuable in many jobs. Believe in yourself and your abilities – you've got this!

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